I've heard that black men are the worst about going out of their way to show their disapproval to white men and black women couples but I think white women are just as bad if not worse. I've noticed this before I really started dating black women, and when I would just go out with black women that I was friends with.
About two weeks ago I was going into a grocery store with a black woman and we crossed the road and a pickup truck was riding by behind us. I heard someone saying something and I looked back and there was a young white woman driving this pick-up truck. Her window was rolled up but she was yelling some kind of insult loud enough that I heard her, and her face was contorted in a way that made her look even less attractive than she normally would have. If I had to guess I would say she was yelling some kind of racial slur to the girl i was with, or something similar to me. My natural reaction was to extend my arm and raise my middle finger. I looked back at the girl, and I guess she chose to ignore it so I didn't say anything about it to her.
So far drive-by insults, are the most I've gotten from black men, where I had the same reaction. White women just seem to be getting more bold. As I said, I've dealt with the stares of disapproval even before I really dated black women, just for being with them in public. I can tell they really hate us, but it's just been looks up until then. Does anyone else get the same looks? Or maybe more like I did from white women? Do they get this angry about white men being with all other women or is it just black women?
All non-white women get's them angry. I've been white-pride sites and trust me. If she were Asian they would get just as mad.
ReplyDeleteHowever, you proably wouldn't get as much drive-by insults as they may mistake an Asian girl for white from a distance or certain speeds.
I get dirty looks from white women when I'm out in public with my white man. They haven't said anything to me yet. Probably because they know they'll get their asses beat. lol
ReplyDelete@1:41 it seems like black women bother them more but i may be wrong since i've never been with any other type of woman.
ReplyDelete@1:54 the girl i was with is kind of a quiet type thats why i don't know if she just chose to ignore her or not. it would have been funny if this happened like 2 gf's ago :) she wasn't the quiet type.
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ReplyDeleteWhite women don't tend to get mouthy in public with black women with white men....they tend to give disapproval looks usually directed at the white man..in hopes the black women don't catch it..however..with the increase in white man and black women relationship...it would be interesting in seeing how many white women will react to this...as they never believe this union (even more or so than white men with Asian women) would be possible in alarming numbers
White women do not care about a broke loser.
ReplyDelete@Proud Sis the only place i usually go out to eat with black women is this chinese place i like. there are white waitresses but the people cooking the food are all chinese and won't spit in it like most white women probably would :) the looks i get from white women i have always thought they were funny even before.
ReplyDelete@zaius, obviously you're wrong...if i'm a broke loser i guess =/
@ Gray December....me and my white husband are very careful where we go to eat and socialize as there are too many white women and black men who cannot respect WM/BW relationships....
ReplyDeleteMy white partner of seven years, we do get looks from bm but I just give out the aura of don't even try to take it any further and this always works. From ww just them trying to be all flirty to see if he fancies them over me, but I am sure they are like this in general, also Asian women will play that "I am all subservient roll" with my bf in the restaurants, be all smiley with him and totally dismiss me. It never works to what they'd hope and they just look disappointed by the time we've finished and leaving the joint.
ReplyDelete@Proud Sis you shouldn't let how other people act really stop you from doing anything. their goal is to try to make you uncomfortable. you should just enjoy the fact you are bothering them :)
ReplyDeleteAnonymous 2:09 asian women have always been friendly to me there, the opposite of any white women we ever would come across. do you really think they are nice because they think it bothers you?
1 I find this myth that only some black women get angry over bm/ww couple but all white women are so cool and confident that they care less, utterly ridicous. But I find that both white women and black men love to promote those false stereotypes. As a black woman who dated white men and who now is married to a white man, I have and continue to get angry, jealous stares from white women and sometimes bladant rudeness from white waitresses, nurses etc..
ReplyDelete2 Most of the time white women's reactions are worse than black men's when it comes to white men with black women.
ReplyDeleteFor so long white women have enjoyed being thought of as the most sexy/beautiful women and barring some Asian women, white women have so long had their same race men only to themselves. This made white women take white men for granted and disrespect them to an extent by having sex with black men and other nonwhite men while always keeping white men for security. Now in addition to Asian women, black women are also realizing what suitable mates/lovers white men are and starting to date/marry more white men.
3 This is shaking many white women's confident to the core because they know there is no-way they can compete with black women when white men find us more attractive.
ReplyDeletegreat post capree. hope i see you around more :) and you're very brave to eat food brought prepared by a ww.
ReplyDeleteGray, how are you..hope you and Canday doing well...I just wanted to say..you should join the many WM/BW facebook groups they have to expose your blog to the group of people who would be interested..and there is a lot...
ReplyDeleteStay in touch...I don't post at that toxic site anymore :)
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